"Choosing trust over doubt gets me burned once in a while, but I'd rather be singed than hardened." -Victoria Monfort

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

Singled Out..

I'm not the only single girl in the world. I know this. But at 34, it gets increasingly harder to be single. Not that I'm dying on my own, or I just cant function..but its different for different social circles.

All my friends are in relationships, or married, or have kids. Or, they all have some reason not to like one another, so getting everyone together is no longer possible either. I have to divy up my time with different groups of people. Which...sucks.

This leaves little girl time. I try to fill my time up with available friends whenever I can, but those times are few and far between.

My life consists mainly of work, working out, and cleaning up poop, pee, and pet hair. And rearranging my furniture and plants. I mean, I went through my self discovery time a few years back, and I'm happy with the result, so um. Now what? I'm always learning about myself, I meditate, I listen to self help books, so what am I suppose to do?

I don't see anything wrong with meeting people. I don't think my Mr. Right will come to my door and knock to get in. I have to get out, see and be seen, and when the right one comes along I'll know. I told the universe, no more frogs. I've had enough. I want my prince!

How I'm becoming my mother 45,678 I'm going to tell you that I started drinking fiber, which is my new attempt at appetite control, and its working swimmingly. It fills you up so you eat less.

Project? Lose the 30 lbs I've been trying to lose for years.


mylittlebecky said...

i totally need to try that fiber thing. i've been really diggin' on the shirataki noodles. they seem to fill me right up.

Sister Copinherhair said...

Too bad we don't live closer. I may be in a relationship but I have lots of time for the girls since he works so much. One of these days we'll hit the town together! :)

Fizzgig said...

shirataki? say wha?

no doubt, ill come round pa soon, my mom wants me to take her to see her sisters. i have to finally make the decision to put my old dog to sleep first. which of course i keep putting off! shes horrid

heather said...

all of my friends are divorced. i feel like the only married 34 year old.

ya know, you're not that far from the columbus area. granted, i'm 30 minutes east of columbus, but still.

Fizzgig said...

Heather, i know you should come visit me. lol oh i think you meant me come there.