"Choosing trust over doubt gets me burned once in a while, but I'd rather be singed than hardened." -Victoria Monfort

Monday, October 18, 2010

If theres one thing I'm good at, it's getting dumped!..

Yes, yes. I got dumped again. I really am starting to get a complex. Sort of. I mean, honestly, I cried a little bit about it, but mostly, my heart wasn't in it anyway. And he was looking for a reason to stay with me and I couldn't really give him one.

What happened this time. Well "it's not you its me" would probably fit here. The guys been single for like 5 years and he just wasn't ready. When he mentioned that he didn't feel "100%" that things would work out w/us, asked what I thought...and I said "I just spent the last three years with a guy who wasn't sure he was ready, and we had a good relationship, we were in love...I can't do it again".

Furthermore, new guy said we had too much sex. Um. firstively, this isn't the first time I've heard this from a man, but it never ceases to shock the shit out of me. Secondly, I really don't remember having to force myself on him thankyouverymuch.

He admitted, nothing may ever feel 100% to him, and thats on him, I'm an awesome girl and he likes hanging out with me and we have a lot of fun, blah. bliddy blah blah.

When you give up the universe will bring you love, right? I dunno, but I give up. Not on finding love, but that love will find me, and I'm not going out of my way to find it.


Carolyn G said...

I am sorry to hear that but maybe it's for the best. ((hugs))

I am also shocked someone said they are having too much sex. WTF?

Sister Copinherhair said...

Well, crap. And there is no such thing as too much sex. Not enough maybe, but not too much.

Teena in Toronto said...

NEXT! His loss ... move on ...

Fizzgig said...

i know...i think just like the last one, its just an excuse. im pretty sure hes just scared i wouldnt pop out his babies. i couldnt promise him that, and why would I? We just started dating!

seriously. its cus we only saw each other a couple times a week.

it certainly is!

Rachel said...

So sorry lady :( And I'd have to agree. There's no such thing as too much!!