tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post3399169095876544618..comments2023-10-12T11:35:53.485-04:00Comments on It's All About Me! Deal With It!: Crazy Like a Fox...Fizzgighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-84761393117365322182010-05-17T01:46:46.517-04:002010-05-17T01:46:46.517-04:00DUDE. Dude has some personality defects. Even th...DUDE. Dude has some personality defects. Even the way he handled the break-up shows exactly what he's made of: chickenshit.Patti Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13309742709640123218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-61958514777665513162010-05-17T01:46:23.389-04:002010-05-17T01:46:23.389-04:00DUDE. Dude has some personality defects. Even th...DUDE. Dude has some personality defects. Even the way he handled the break-up shows exactly what he's made of: chickenshit.Patti Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13309742709640123218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-71742097612332388332010-05-14T18:56:19.405-04:002010-05-14T18:56:19.405-04:00He's worried about his cat going through the &...He's worried about his cat going through the "blending process"?<br /><br />It's a bullshit pussy excuse.<br /><br />Read that however you like. Dickhead indeed.Sister Copinherhairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14896140845912858618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-48591071541333419202010-05-12T14:31:01.127-04:002010-05-12T14:31:01.127-04:00No freakin' way!?
Kick this guy to the curb o...No freakin' way!?<br /><br />Kick this guy to the curb once and for all.Teena in Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14875608173791872449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-50313202107743904052010-05-11T15:31:48.021-04:002010-05-11T15:31:48.021-04:00not to make it sound like his bizarre 180 degree t...not to make it sound like his bizarre 180 degree turn should feel okay, but it is so much better that it happened now and that he's out of your life before he became a basic part of the most basic parts of your day-to-day existence. and good for you for putting it out there like this -- keep taking care of yourself.rwshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09521749388187417560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-36175093627413305892010-05-11T15:16:55.170-04:002010-05-11T15:16:55.170-04:00COWARDCOWARDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-20762543153401738162010-05-11T12:18:27.057-04:002010-05-11T12:18:27.057-04:00Heather said: "2 1/2 years and you get a FB b...Heather said: "2 1/2 years and you get a FB break-up followed up with an email and a key on the table? seriously? <br /><br />you deserve much better!"<br /><br />DITTO. What a insecure, childish, uncaring way to handle the end of your relationship. <br /><br />What a FUCKTARD!texanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10209631404053607246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-63353489501359507362010-05-11T09:57:35.384-04:002010-05-11T09:57:35.384-04:00becky:
ty...it hurts. but helps to know hes crazy...becky: <br />ty...it hurts. but helps to know hes crazy.<br /><br />suzi:<br />you are exactly right. My thinking exactly, i try to find the lesson in everything that happens, and since this was my happiest relationship, I know what to look for, and not to settle...just minus the crazy. I have to believe the universe has more for me, so it will come. I'm too good a person to keep going through BS. I live my life as I wish to be treated. <br /><br />babylamb:<br />you are right, the issue isnt his family or friends or cat, its him. i told him that and teh sooner he realizes that the better the womeon of the world will be. <br /><br />heather:<br />seriously! we're 34 and you dump me by deleting me and your friends from FB before even telling me its over. Im sorry, before i got home to read my letter....telling me its over. PUS-eeee<br /><br />mz:<br />thanks! we should def get together, weve known each other cyber-ly for so long. and unlike the manfriend, i dont believe cleveland is too far to have friends.Fizzgighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-28131115329190936622010-05-11T08:54:55.839-04:002010-05-11T08:54:55.839-04:00I am so sorry to read this post I really am. I thi...I am so sorry to read this post I really am. I think Heather hit the nail on the head. You really do deserve so much more. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-17133976874877698312010-05-10T23:41:30.004-04:002010-05-10T23:41:30.004-04:00Mon,
I am so sorry. That's is horrible. You...Mon,<br /><br />I am so sorry. That's is horrible. You don't deserve to be treated this way. I am glad you are in such a better place and feeling self-love.<br /><br />If you need anything....someone to listen, a drink or whatever, just let me know.<br /><br />Just went through my own lost 2 weeks ago. Finally at peace. Men and love make me crazy, but that emotional high is amazing. It has to be the only reason why I get back in the game.<br /><br />Much love to ya!MzAriezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519633400303627389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-43568160220191842532010-05-10T22:25:10.710-04:002010-05-10T22:25:10.710-04:002 1/2 years and you get a FB break-up followed up ...2 1/2 years and you get a FB break-up followed up with an email and a key on the table? seriously? <br /><br />you deserve much better!heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429345614577652950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-18715688043110587442010-05-10T19:56:25.509-04:002010-05-10T19:56:25.509-04:00I'm so sorry. What a coward!! I don't even...I'm so sorry. What a coward!! I don't even know him but I want to bitch slap him. I mean seriously to write a letter to tell you all this. He couldn't even tell you face to face. You deserve so much more. He has some serious issues and its not the cat or his family and friends its something more.babylambhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07001748382343040232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-4530987183278723602010-05-10T19:00:39.304-04:002010-05-10T19:00:39.304-04:00You learned a LOT from this relationship, Mon. He ...You learned a LOT from this relationship, Mon. He has many wonderful traits, but maturity, sanity, and stability are not among them, and those are all pretty important to the success maintaining a healthy relationship for any length of time. He helped you learn how you like to be treated in a relationship, and that's something he can't take with him, and you will have forever. You're going to come out of this better than ever, like you always do, while he continues to flounder as if he's 19 years old and doesn't own a car. AND you won't have to constantly wonder if this is the day he's going to lose his mind and break up with you again!Suzihttp://www.suzannemcdonough.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-39435976532975542332010-05-10T16:09:23.651-04:002010-05-10T16:09:23.651-04:00i don't even know what to say. my heart is bre...i don't even know what to say. my heart is breaking for you. what an awful way to end things. what a coward. i'm sorry you have to go through this. *hugs*mylittlebeckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09610700094326989044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-22168975124502273202010-05-10T15:58:47.754-04:002010-05-10T15:58:47.754-04:00erin:
i know, even i wouldnt do that about the cat...erin:<br />i know, even i wouldnt do that about the cat. she'd have been fine, one of his many excuses. he even told me if i lived closer (that again?) that it would be easier, I said no it wouldnt, because what about poor mojo? <br /><br />And his #1 complaint is his friends dont hang out, so throw it all away for them who you don't see. whateve. <br /><br />hed miss them, when they live 38 miles from my house, a half hour drive once in a while, vs a half hour drive 5 times a week for us to be togther. Its all excuses, and hes insane. <br /><br />Thank you so much erin. one thing i do know, is that ive been thru worse, and i finally love the person that I am, and thats the difference with this time. I am not going to be ruined. Hurt, dumbounded, and confused...but not ruined! <br /><br />I dont have to face people who ask how the move is going and say...ummm i broke up with her instead. I get to say, uh, yea he broke up with me instead. And those that know us, know there was nothing wrong with us. He's just scared, and crazyFizzgighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-23339601164317431532010-05-10T15:51:32.005-04:002010-05-10T15:51:32.005-04:00I have so many things to say it's not even fun...I have so many things to say it's not even funny... like seriously, he'd put the relationship with his CAT in front of his relationship with you???????? I love my cat too but I wouldn't worry about traumatizing her if I found someone wonderful to love. And he's miss his family and friends too much? Seriously, what is he 12 and going away to camp for a few weeks??? Finish school when he isn't even in school??? Like I said, I could go on but one thing that rings clear in his letter - he is an immature asshole that doesn't deserve someone as wonderful, loving, and beautiful as you. <br /><br />Mon, I've "known" you for at least 4 years now and I've seen you go through a lot of stuff, and I know, as do all of your other readers that you are a strong, self sufficient girl who CAN get through this easily and who KNOWS that you are way better off without him. Take your time to grieve and then move on and get this fuckhead out of your mind... he doesn't deserve the time you spend thinking about him.Erinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-10706463755987377642010-05-10T15:50:44.535-04:002010-05-10T15:50:44.535-04:00Boys can super suck sometimes.Boys can super suck sometimes.Suzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14832586851061375624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-34541711734280512212010-05-10T14:50:51.599-04:002010-05-10T14:50:51.599-04:00carolyn:
yea, 99% of the time youd think hes a nor...carolyn:<br />yea, 99% of the time youd think hes a normal guy. It was my best most loving relatinship, but apparently he was good at lying. <br /><br />Suzanne:<br />yea, im better off for sure! What a shock!Fizzgighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-78610408276637900962010-05-10T14:49:21.720-04:002010-05-10T14:49:21.720-04:00Holy asshole!
That sucks but better before he mo...Holy asshole! <br />That sucks but better before he moved in than later. Wow! What a jerk!Suzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14832586851061375624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12973850.post-50363194476467525792010-05-10T14:43:18.922-04:002010-05-10T14:43:18.922-04:00WTH? ALl of a sudden he decides not only does he n...WTH? ALl of a sudden he decides not only does he not want to move in but break up? Holy poop. I don't know him so I can't comment on him but that's really f'd up from my point of view. <br /><br />Hang in there! ((hugs))Carolyn Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14130728136654196449noreply@blogger.com